身為女人

上週末,訪問Elva前,想起她的一則新聞“男友与好友搞上 萧亚轩捉奸在床 ”……猶豫了一陣子,不知該不該向她提起這個話題。 我一向不喜歡太八卦,關於這點,我還在努力調試。Anyway,如果“男友與好友搞上”這件事是真實,我也不想挖當事人的傷疤。 可是,Elva對該新聞的總結,讓我有所感動。她說:“這段過去的戀情因爲是‘很激烈地為彼此燃燒’,所以就算情已逝,彼此都在心裏給對方留下特別的位子。” 就有這樣的女人,如果真心付出,即使對方再殘忍地傷害自己,也會默然接受……畢竟大家曾經相愛過,那些切切實實發生過的事情,只能放在心理……保存所有真實的、美麗的回憶…… 每個人處理感情的方式不同,但,身為女人,尤其有相同經歷的女人,對於Elva的這番話,一定感同身受。就算有多痛恨對方,“他”還是會在你心裏“留下特別的位子”。 與Elva面對面,訪問進行到一半,我簡短告訴她,我被“很激烈地為彼此燃燒”和“留下特別的位子”這句話感動了,身為女人,大家心裏都清楚那種滋味。 她說:受傷后,很自然的會有一個保護層,會有一點封閉,不想讓別人再碰。但我現在已做好準備,迎接新戀情了。 多麽積極的回應! 女人們,加油吧


背叛

我要說的,跟背叛無關。哈哈。 其實,我要說的這首歌,有些人都不知道它叫《背叛》,因爲副歌的那句“Say Goodbye”似乎比較像是重點。 Ahem…sorry… 話説回來,昨天在看小寒的Blog (http://blog.omy.sg/xiaohan),她提到她最愛的一首歌中的詞,正是我前天反復在聼的《背叛》,我同樣也被這一句吸引:“鋼琴上黑鍵之間 永遠都夾著空白 缺了一塊 就不精彩”。(曹格的曲,詞由阿丹和烏裕康老師填上) 小寒文中提到,這句寫得太美了。 我認同。“鋼琴”雖然是這首歌裏的小小插曲,卻構成美麗動人的畫面。 突然,想起了另一首以“鋼琴”為主題,范逸臣唱的《Piano》…… 白鍵是那一年海邊沙灘 浪花的繾綣 黑鍵是和你多日不見 彈指間 海岸線 你的淚 我的眼 模糊天邊 每個人心中都有架鋼琴 塵封在回憶 任憑我只是你的插曲 時間偶爾提起 鋼琴偶爾哭泣 那些凌亂片段 如果愛還能再重來 我期待澎湃永遠在 oh~~每次琴蓋打開 便有歌來自大海 如果愛我已不存在 我希望有一段精采 讓回憶有所感慨 白鍵是現在我哀悼昨天成全你改變 黑鍵是原諒我的原諒 好想再彈一遍 手指卻只聽見 妳的抱歉 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 寫著寫著,想起很多《Long Vacation》裏的男女主角在鋼琴前的經典浪漫畫面!哈哈……不寫了……越扯越遠。


just be yourself..

今天傍晚有《The Bucket list》媒體預映,我因爲工作延誤,遲了半個小時到電影院。黑暗中,只好匆匆走進去,隨便找個位子坐。 3分鐘后,我發現我進錯戲院!真是的!放映著我沒有看過,而且沒什麽興趣看的《Step Up 2》…… 遲疑了一會兒,我還是決定留在原地,又站又坐,影響別人的視覺享受,那就不太好 況且,我都遲到了,看《The Bucket List》可能會很“Lost”,至少《Step Up 2》是跳舞爲主,比較容易看得懂。 劇情中,女主角講的一句話,讓我印象非常深:When I was young, my mum told me to be myself…I didn’t understand… 的確,小的時候,當有人告訴你“一定要做自己”時, 天真無邪的幼小心靈怎麽不感到納悶呢?“我明明就在做自己嘛,怎麽可能做別人呢?” |


事情,都毫無預兆地發生……

昨夜11點,回家的途中,接到噩耗:姑丈洗腎時昏迷,送往醫院路上過世。 消息來得太突然,親戚們都不太能夠接受…… 沒有預兆,就這樣走了。 人往往踫到這樣的時刻,都會開始反省自己的人生,覺得生命無常啦、想做什麽就去做啦、要珍惜身邊的家人愛人朋友啦…… 唉…… 昨夜接到噩耗之前,你突然告訴我一個關於你上一段戀情的秘密。 也許,之前你說過所有關於你們的過去,我都表態那些是“~ed” (past tense既是“過去”的意思,我不會介意),所以這一次,你放心地坦白了這個秘密。 我聼了你的“故事”,反應雖不大,卻明顯露出不安。我說,我可以大方接受一切,但有些真相,第一次聽説,總會有刺。這一點,希望你能了解。 回家路上,在不斷回想我們的話題當而,接到了姑丈逝世的消息,我的心突然平靜了下來…… 睡前,我在電話中要你放心,我真的沒事。你提議,不然我們交換秘密,讓我也說出那個“不堪回首”的一段記憶。僵持了一會兒,我還是不說,我知道你會明白我的苦衷。 睡前,我告訴你,雖然你的“秘密”聼起來“刺刺”的,我依然會選擇接受。因爲,我珍惜我們的現在。   今年一月,你送了這份禮物(照片)給我,你附上:“I’m always there”。這份禮物,我昨天晚上才看到。


相愛的人如多太在乎對方,就很容易產生誤會……

How True。 怎麽辦?愛還是不愛呢?


rufus + judy = BEST!

幾個星期前,通過《優一周》才知道Rufus Wainwright發行新專輯 《Rufus Does Judy at Carnegie Hall》。 是Kit(陳潔儀)讓我認識這歌手。Kit說她在美國常聼Rufus Wainwright,喜歡他“懶洋洋”的歌唱方式…… 因爲這歌手名字特別,音質和歌唱技巧特別,我第一次聼他的專輯就對他印象深刻,所以在星期天的節目“Sunday11”也常播他的歌,他的爵士曲子,詢問度特別高。 每次在空中介紹這張專輯 《Rufus Does Judy at Carnegie Hall》,總會有人問起(歌手名字、專輯名字),所以決定讓大家看看專輯封面: Rufus 重新演繹他最崇拜的偶像歌手—Judy Garland,1961年在 Carnegie Hall開唱的36首歌曲。同樣的舞臺,同樣的曲目。Rufus“懶洋洋”的歌聲搭Big Band、爵士的編曲,要熱鬧有熱鬧;要抒情有抒情,蠻有氣氛的。


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