我是Carrie嗎?

問我電影版的《Sex & the City》好不好看,我一定很bias,一定說“棒”!不是粉絲的朋友,可能會嫌故事太拖。Well……I don’t care,我應該會再看一次吧!哈哈! 3年前已經K完6個season的我,最近在電影上映前,又再次追看劇集。曾經說過,《Sex & the City》 is not all about “Sex”,故事裏穿插的愛情、友情和親情的情節,從種種的摩擦到和解、分開到重逢,讓觀衆領悟不少人與人之間的相處之道。 | 重新追看電視版的《Sex & the City》,感觸非常多……也許是因爲我現在的年齡,跟劇情裏的4個都會女性相近,遇到的問題和煩惱也幾乎一樣,所以更有共鳴。 第一次看的時候,覺得自己的個性介於Mirandaå’ŒCharlotte之間—Miranda的大女人和堅強;Charlotte對愛情的憧憬。 這次再重溫,怎麽看,都覺得自己已經變成了Carrie — 可愛、幽默、有點小聰明(這樣說會不會太“噁”?),但就是想太多,總是因爲對感情太投入而受傷……呵呵,這是步入30以後的不安全感嗎? 有位朋友非常羡慕這4位女主角的友情。的確,要找到“不離不棄”的朋友真的不容易,就算是激烈爭吵以後,平靜下來還是會希望得到對方的原諒。 | 因爲《Sex & the City》,我最近愛上了女主角最愛的雞尾酒 — Cosmopolitian。 現在的我,最希望學會主角們的灑脫。


留住生命中美麗的片段

總是羡慕別人的生活?覺得大家都過得比你好,比你幸福? 有沒有想過,你看到的只是他們生活中美麗的片段?電視電影情節也是如此,往往都呈現最好的一面…… 每個人都有快樂甜蜜的時刻,一定也有不爲人知惱人的問題,沒有一起經歷,你不會知道哪些是甜、哪些是苦。 不久前放了一個假,是一直都期待的假期。於是,我準備大膽嘗試“真空上陣”! 可惜當天的氣氛嚴重被破壞!被出賣還得假裝開心,複雜的情緒讓我當下後悔穿上我夢寐以求的衣服。 剛剛在整理照片時,突然很開心看見自己做出這樣的嘗試。想著想著,腦海中浮現的都是美麗的片段…… | 把不好的人和事都排開,你可以為你的人生挑選屬於自己美麗的片段……


默哀3分鐘的那一刻,全世界只聽到彼此的呼吸和心跳聲

昨天,在我的節目《SundayEleven》之前,電臺破天荒與電視臺同步為四川地震進行籌款。《SundayEleven》10點15分開始,我播了Michael Jackson的“Earth Song”,提醒大家多愛地球一點點…… 上個星期問候在中國工作的好友V,她說前些時候,因為奧林匹克傳炬火不斷被騷擾,加上西藏事件,世界各囯都像是在看笑話……這一陣子真的看到中國人的團結,讓人既感動又驕傲。 在全中國默哀3分鐘的那一刻,廣場上逛街的人都停下腳步;售貨員都到店門口;停車場的車子都將車子停下……頓時,全世界只聽到彼此的呼吸和心跳聲。 活著的人要照顧好自己,照顧好身邊心愛的人,照顧好自己的家,照顧好這個地球……


原來已經過了那麽久……

我的Blog被提名參加OMY主辦的“Singapore Blog Awards”。 由於表格上要列出自己最滿意的3個Blog entries,我開始慢慢走進了回憶…… 時間真的過得好快,原來…… 1)2006å¹´8月12日,我曾經在“彈唱人”開了一場迷你音樂分享會。如今“彈唱人”民歌餐廳已結束營業,而我再次恢復單身; 2)2006å¹´8月,拼了老命製作的《2530的幸福》落幕了,當時是既開心又失落。其中最難忘的是—爲了這個廣播劇,我當了一次美麗的新娘。 3)2007å¹´10月,是我在電臺度過的最後一次生日。如果那個時侯知道是最後一次在電臺度過生日,我應該不會只是吹蠟燭吃蛋糕,那麽平淡吧? 4)2007å¹´3月,不忍心看見一位同事為無聊的公司politics而幾乎崩潰,寫了一些鼓勵的話語,希望她振作(Keep Moving forward); 5)看了太多韓劇,期待去一趟韓國……所以2007å¹´4月我和Vivian完成了這個小小夢想。大部分美麗的照片都是Vivian拍的,感覺上,她好像是去當我的攝影師!哈哈; 6)我在2007年九月,買了君偉和阿威的書,真為他們驕傲! 我忘了什麽時候設了這個部落格,一直都以爲只是孤芳自賞,沒有人會來看,但最近添了一個“Counter” ,才發現到訪的人還不少。 感謝大家支持,我會繼續努力的。Gambatte~~~!!


我好毒啊

上回到深圳,到按摩中心請師傅做一做“走罐”…… 結果,師傅邊做邊喊:“好黑啊!太黑啦……”。 後來她叫我拍照自己看看…… 好可怕啊!! ****************************************************** 我有濕疹,尤其小腿部分特別嚴重。 昨天在錄影前,突然覺得小腿很癢,仔細一看,天啊!流膿啦!怎麽會這樣呢? 好可怕啊!! 擦葯后,變得更恐怖…… 我身體裏究竟藏著什麽毒!?


你們振作,一定要團結走出陰霾

什麽時候,我的心變渺小了?看不見也聼不見四周發生的事情? 四川地震第四天了,死亡人數都已增加至1万5000人,官方估計近2到3万人被活埋…… 那天接到地震消息后,問候了幾位朋友,大家都沒事,家人也平安。我們為生存者慶幸,卻對罹難的人數感到極度難過。 這幾天新聞不斷重播不幸者的傷感畫面,也看到獲救者感恩的表情。 因爲工作需要整理跟娛樂屆有關的地震新聞,我遊覽了好幾個藝人的blog,看地震對他們的影響也看他們對地震的想法…… 這一切的一切,讓我感觸很深。生命如此脆弱,請珍惜眼前人。希望大家振作,團結走出陰霾 — 有錢的出錢、有力的出力。


Goodbye my lover..

前天晚上,幾乎全場跟著James Blunt一起清唱“Goodbye My Lover”,室内體育場頓時填滿了感人的氣氛。我當然有被感動啦…… 期待了好久,終于等到James Blunt《All the lost souls》世界巡迴演唱會來到新加坡。(可以上OMY看報道和一些演唱會照片) 坦白說,演出結束後並沒有特別興奮,但後來腦子裏不斷重復演唱會聽到的歌曲,才覺得,演唱會雖然沒有太多高潮、James Blunt雖然現場演繹跟CD沒太大差別,但他的聲音實在太棒了,深深印在腦海裏(蕩氣回腸)。 這個星期天的SundayEleven,我會播這首“Goodbye my lover”,鎖定哦!


主角還是配角?

每個人都有各自該扮演的角色。你在不同人的世界裏,就有不同的身份……是主角是配角,有些時候由不得你決定。 最近反復思考的問題,就是如何分配“主角配角”的選擇題。誰是你生命中的過客?誰是你生命中無可取代的人? 不久前告訴一個好友,等到我們年老時,一定還要是朋友,互相依靠,陪對方到醫院看病……我要她答應我,不可以離棄我。哈哈,硬逼人家做我的“主角”。 對我來説,家人永遠是主角,因爲爸爸就是爸爸,媽媽就是媽媽,兄弟姐妹們要扮演的家人角色是上天賜的,無法改變。無論遇到什麽事,家人永遠都在身邊,給予關懷和支持。 昨天跟朋友聊起他即將娶過門的太太,聼他說之前如何辜負她的故事,他欣慰地說:“我現在完完全全確定,就是她了。” 她成了他生命中的主角。 成了家人,和之前談戀愛的關係不一樣,多了一個“夫妻”的角色,加重了那份責任,我問他準備好了嗎?讓一個沒有血緣關係的人,變成一個比爸媽兄弟姐妹還親的人,需要很大的肯定。 後來他又說了很多關於他的過去,聽著聼著,我相信他已經做好準備了。 人與人的緣份是微妙的,今天是你的配角,明天成爲你的主角……祝福他。


我,再也不要一個人旅行

一個人旅行是寂寞的。我試過一個人在日本,臺灣,香港……逛街逛累了,歇腳時沒人聊天……看到美麗的日出、吃到可口的小吃、坐在cosy的咖啡廳,不管做什麽,都遺憾沒人分享。 今年4月,獨自去了一趟香港。想離開每天不斷重復的規律和習慣,想放下心中的包袱和悲傷。 到了香港機場,肚子超餓!直奔最愛的“許留山”,點了最多芒果的甜點。一邊吃,一邊想著接下來的行程。 | 奇怪,甜品雖然好吃,可是爲什麽越吃越覺得無味? 第二天,我決定程搭山頂纜車到山頂去看看傳説中的“杜莎夫人蠟像館”…… ||||| 奇怪,可以跟喜愛的團體Beatles一起拍照,怎麽一點都不興奮? 之後,決定犒賞自己,找一個不錯的餐館吃頓好的吧! | | 當天煙霧彌漫,美麗的山景都被遮蓋了……我一邊寫著“情書”,一邊享用Truffle Spaghetti,心中卻漂著絲絲的淒涼。 那一刻,我告訴自己,我再也不要一個人旅行了。再怎麽獨立堅強,也會有想依靠的時候。獨自一個人在一個陌生的過渡,這樣的感覺特別強烈。 世界之大,也要有可以分享的人,讓接觸到的所有事物,變得更美麗,更可以收藏在記憶。


你相信有Karma嗎?

我一直都相信Karma。 記得幾年前,還在電臺時,老愛跟小豬互相逗對方“小心有Karma(ooooorrrrr, bad karma)”之類的話。口中開著玩笑,心裏都明白Karma是真的一回事,做人還是頂天立地好,對得起自己,對得起別人。 不久前,一位好友上山“修行”(meditation)去。她告訴我,師傅提醒了人不能犯的戒,不然得承受因果報應。聼起來挺可怕的,但我們正的需要無時無刻被提醒…… 最近Facebook大家都在傳“Karma”,究竟大家了解什麽是Karma嗎?如果真懂,爲什麽還不斷犯戒?


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