愛她 盡量不傷害她

兩個月前的漏油事件,引起各界人士的關注,爲了我們人類的物質生活,犧牲了很多生物,看到了這些…我很難過。 漏油事件誰也不想發生,既然發生了,我們也必須反省,我們必須承認,尤其是生活在都市的我們,都需要負上一點點的責任。 爲了提升人類的生活素質,爲了滿足在繁華文明都市的人類,大家都間接地、慢慢地傷害這地球。 城市人們的生活太舒適,感受不到地球病得多嚴重。 城市人們的壓力太大,巴不得地球快點滅亡,大家同歸于盡。 城市人們的錢太多,凡事都認爲用錢就可以解決問題,請科學家研究解決方案吧,最方便了。 城市人們的生活空間太狹窄,每天忙碌只爲了保護自己的家,忘了,沒有地球,也不會有家。 這裡忙著拆樓,那裏高價賣樓。 這裡忙著砍樹,那裏忙著搭高架橋。 大家的生活很精彩。 我們不是聖人,我們並不完美。我們想要有物質享受,又不想危害地球,怎麽辦? 身為城市人,我們多多少少也可以有一點貢獻吧? 那天看見李心潔的微博:這一次在台北呆的時間長,去過很多地方,發現台北是個注重環保的城市!排練室的冷氣每天會關一個小時,飯店的每一個角落都有 小咭片提醒我們節省水電,百貨公司的環保日電梯分單雙樓層,到處都有好吃的素食,減少吃肉的二氧化碳排放量等等!我們要愛 [心] 地球! 在新加坡的我們,是不是也應該學習學習? 沒錯,我們不是聖人,我們並不完美,但我們還是可以有一點點環保意識、盡本分環保。 一年多前(因爲Paul McCartney提倡),我開始了“Meat-Free Monday”。 我今天吃素,你呢?


Just when you think you’ve got it, you’ve lost it

我從來都不是一個自信滿分的人,但我很喜歡用積極正面的心態,征服我的悲觀想法。 所有事,我都盡量做好本分,以不傷害(麻煩)人為前提。所以,沒把握的事,我都表現得不太有信心(不想到頭來給人添麻煩)。愛情也一樣,沒有把握的話,我寧願別人把他照顧好。 兩個月前,不知道是不是心情太過輕鬆,我每天都表現得很有“自信”。朋友們都認爲我變了,連我自己也覺得不可思議。 哈哈。 當,越來越多人誇獎我的“自信”,我的能量和力量也就莫名地倍增,做任何事情都不覺得有問題,一旦付出,就有“旗開得勝”的感覺。 近一、兩個星期,我開始面對種種的“小打擊”,到手的“生意”被人搶走;被人猛誇(看好)的作品,以爲很容易推銷,結果毫無下文… 那麽巧,那天抽到的Fortune Cookie説:Funny thing about humility. Just when you think you’ve got it, you’ve lost it 這幾天,重新整頓了低落的心情。 我想,前兩個月我太鬆懈了,所以沒有了“危機意識”,也少了一些back-up plans。 針對“Just when you think you’ve got it, you’ve lost it”的説法,我也轉換心態面對。I’ve LOST it, but I’ve learnt a lot along the way. 昨天,終于開始追看World Cup。 之前在Group C領先的Slovenia,昨天1比0敗給了England。原本還是有機會晉升到16強,結果USA在另一個球場的第91分鐘進了一球,瞬間把Slovenia踢出局。


距離新加坡“20分鐘”…

…是Batam的一個度假村,Turi Beach Resort。 除了服務沒有很完善、食物沒有很美味、Spa沒有開很晚,真的沒什麽好嫌的了。哈哈哈哈。 爲了要寬敞和舒適的環境,我們三人選了一個Junior Suite: ||| 我們房間陽臺望出去的風景,還不賴… | 在泳池曬太陽,感覺不錯。Btw, this is a heated pool!! *likes* | Turi Beach 有兩個游泳池,一個靠近Balinese-Style Resort Room,另一個靠近我們住的 Contemporary Room: | 在沙灘走走、在長堤看日落,心情特別好: | || | Turi Beach最著名的佳肴,是“Turi Soup Buntut”,因爲it’s copied many times but never duplicated!! 呵呵… There’re not much choices on the menu… | 在Resort的三天幾乎都在下雨,我們只好窩在舒適的房間裏看書、看電視、玩遊戲、泡澡、看電視、玩遊戲…聼起來很無聊嗎?不會耶,我們都玩得很開心、笑得很大聲,所以我為這個沙灘之旅取名為《一 晴二雨三樂游》。 || | 問我Turi Beach Resort值不值得去?嗯,有對的伴,就去吧,不然踫到下雨天,你就要躲在房裏哭了(去Town至少30分鐘車程)。


最近在微博潛水

兩個多月前,好友B慫恿我加入微博。我的twitter早已經“宣告身亡”(都不記得password是什麽了,哈哈),對於要在微 博“廣播”自己的心情,我其實也沒有太大的興趣。 幾天後的一個下午,可能是無聊的緣故,我決定看看微博究竟是什麽個東西。 登入的那一刻,看見有人轉發范曉萱的“心情”: 我非常喜欢三十岁的感觉,又有成熟度,又有原本童心的那个部分,发现看事情真的看 懂了很多事,我也不知道为什么。 不会像二十岁出头那么悲愤,很多事情看得 那么严重。因为到了三十岁,不会再试图就纠正自己。你跟自己和解,然后真正的爱自己。 然後,又看見蔡康永分享的微博: 每做一事,最好只追求一个最在乎的目标,其余都可让步,这样达成目标的机会才高。比方:做这事,最在乎是学经验,那就别计较 钱;做那事,最要紧是钱,那就 别计较面子。以此类推。若做一事,又想学经验,又要赚得多,又要有面子… …如此美事,有得等啊。。。《康永,给残酷社会的善意短信》 兩個語錄,讓我馬上立刻加入微博。 朋 友說,不太參與討論也沒關係,潛水就好。 那天過後,我臨睡前都會登入,偶爾看看藝人的有趣互動、星座分析、精彩語錄。 微博, 無形中成爲了我的“心靈雞湯”。 在“littleoslo”的微博看到了一張超可愛的照片…讓我看一次笑一次: “女人坊杂志官方微博”有一則讓我看一次感嘆一次的微博: 人之所以会痛苦, 就是追求的太多。人生在世,不可能事事顺心,不要常常觉得自己很不幸,其实世界上比我们痛苦的人还要多。明知道有些理想永远无法实现,有些问题永远没有答 案,有些故事永远没有结局,有些人永远只是熟悉的陌生人,可还是会在苦苦地追求着,等待着,幻想着。(摘)


新的網絡用語~内牛滿面

正要寫關於我在“微博潛水”的blog…突然收到了好友B的簡訊,她說要教我一個新的詞彙。 Well, we had a good laugh!! It made our day… 谐音“泪 流满面”, 表示一种哭泣、悲伤的心情。其实内牛满面的真正出处是魔兽小说《如果,宅》中的泪流满面,起初在众魔兽世界玩 家口中 流传的是泪流满面,之后传播在网络中广泛应用,并繁衍为谐音:内牛满面。 在日常的 网络生活当中,当然没有这么多的事情让人真的哭泣与悲伤。内牛满面很大程度上,是用来 表示一种善意的讥讽,或者说明自己对一件事情发生的激动。 譬如说一 本断更许久的小说更新了,就可以说:内牛满面啊!终于看上了! 再譬如 说:一个人发了一个很傻很天真的帖子,大家都可以回复说“看到楼主的帖子真是让我内牛满面啊……” 其实为什 么写“内牛满面”主要是有一些人拼音“n”“l”不分,才导致打出“内牛满面”的,一开始并不是装可爱,后来发现这样打还蛮Q的,所以大家 迅速爱上了“内牛满面”。 搞笑….


家家有本難念的經

幾個朋友最近面臨“家變”危機。有的因爲父母,有的因爲伴侶,有的因爲錢財… 有些故事,聼了可笑;有些,卻讓我痛心。 別人的家事,旁人也很難幫得上忙,最多是耐心聆聽當事人訴苦、發牢騷,盡量說些好話、勸合不勸分。 唉~ 父母總是爲了孩子好。 孩子永遠不明白爸媽的苦心。 兄弟姐妹縂要有一個懂得讓步。 不學習溝通和諒解,思想和觀念的差距就會越來越大。 小時候,常聼大人說“家家有本難念的經”,長大以後,這句話漸漸變成了各自的感嘆。 昨晚看了《歲月神偷》…結果,從電影院一路哭回家!(還好朋友一早提醒準備紙巾) 一步難、一步佳….難一步、佳一步… “再艱難也需要信念, 一步難後便是一步佳”


我也要祝福Selina

不做网络记者以后,我已经近一个月没有“追”娱乐新闻了。 今天在偶然的情况下翻阅《我报》,被“Selina男朋友公开示爱”新闻给吸引。 女子天团S.H.E前晚在台北小巨蛋开 唱,Selina的39岁律师男友张承中(Richard)与任爸、任妈一起看演唱会。Encore 时,Richard突然拿起麦克风叫“老婆”, 并高喊“老婆,我爱你”,让Selina哭到腿软跪地,猛喊“你叫我什么?天啊!妈!”、“我终于可以公开恋情,大家值回票价”。 艺人要维系恋情不容易(知名度高的更不用说),跟圈外人谈恋爱,更是须要对方体谅。读完新闻,我马上传简讯告诉《我报》同事,这消息让我很感动。尤 其读到Selina哭到腿软,我也很想哭。嗯,她突然如释重负,之前所压抑的一切在瞬间全都消失,换成是我,也会泣不成声。 晚上回到家,第一时间上网找视频。 现场万人欢呼,高喊:“求婚!求婚!”,还有歌迷把现场拍到的画面放上Youtube,祝福Selina:“一定要幸福啦!” 看了视频,我终于忍不住落泪了。 我是被Selina男友现场讲的话感动。 很多人都嚷着,天底下好男人剩不多… Selina就找到了一个。 张先生如果不是真心的,也不敢在这样的场合示爱,这个动作比签下一纸合约还需要勇气。


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